Only Men know What True Love Is

Men are the only gender that feels true love. Women merely experience it. When a man loves a woman he honestly loves her. Women have the ability to love the idea of a man or what he stands for. Women are raised either consciously or sub-consciously to search for the Prince Charming/Knight in shining Armor type of love. This leads to many women being fooled to believe that they are in love and to even give up when they realize they aren’t. This is why only males are capable of feeling true love.

Even with all this convenient talk of equality the male is supposed to be the stronger and more dominant one. When a man finds love, true love not this television panties off on first date nonsense, he gives up being dominant. His dominance is a façade to the hiding of the fact that he is bending to the female’s whims and fancies or that his efforts are now to please her. Guy night becomes allowable when the lady approves of it, clothes she doesn’t like are thrown away, the house is decorated to suit her taste and the boxer drawer starts to have 3 ½ panties for every 1 boxer in it. Women gain a larger amount from “love.” They are wined and dined; all their wishes are catered to as males seek to win them over.

I’m not saying that women don’t give up any of themselves to be with a man but I dare say in love and romance that most women can be predicted. There seems to be some set guidelines or holy grail passed down from 1 female to the next for how to behave when you meet a nice gentleman. It outlines what makes a man a good man be it financially, physically or emotionally and how to treat them depending on category. In the event that you say to a lady that her significant other is ugly you are usually met by a he’s sweet or he treats me right (emotionally good); or he takes care of me (financially good). Tell a man his girl is ugly he’ll either ignore you, agree but reassert that he loves her or look to fight with you for attacking the love of his life. This is true even if he knows deep down inside that she resembles Roberts of the Christmas Song variety.

This can be seen even more so in when love hurts, some men seek to take lives. This is due to the fact that without this person he is now heartless and basically dead. When some women “love” a man and he hurts her she looks to damage his vehicle, hate on the new lady or slander his name. This is because she is losing her “good man” and it reflects badly on her self-esteem and self image so the outward projection makes her go after all the possessions he may value over her. The man loves the being whilst the ladies love the idea.

This is why I say men feel true love whilst women experience it. A man loves from the heart and is free from logic. Women even if their actions seem irrational are acting on theoretical concepts.