Ego vs Pride

I had a conversation with a friend who was having so relationship issues. To sum it up she had a good boyfriend but she still likes her ex and they had drifted closer in recent times and she was tempted to switch back. She however decided to stick with her current but the shocking move was she told him how she felt and that they have work to do to save the relationship. She then said to me that if he had told her these things she would have dumped him and that’s where our blog begins today.

How is this even fair? Then it hit me, in the world where the prefixes wo and fe come into play fair is not a term that hold any sort of merit. A man works 2 jobs to help support his household, he’s tired and stretched and doesn’t give his lady the attention she needs and she looks outside for comfort and in the world of wo and fe he will be to blame for neglecting her. Let the roles be reversed and the man will be at fault because he should have supported her as she tried to make it and not let sex rule him. For the man he would take the blame because he couldn’t fight his urges. Women don’t argue with me on this point because I am a man and I know how we think, you don’t.

Despite all the advancements in equality men are now victimized by what I like to call “Never The Victim” syndrome which coupled with women’s “I’m Always The Victim” gene makes it impossible for us to be right even when we’re right. Men are by default careless, promiscuous and wrong. Women being the fairer sex would only wrong a man when provoked. Men wrong women by default. It’s this subconscious mind set that has a lot of good men being wronged. I myself have been told I made a girl leave me because I was just too good to be true and something must be wrong with me. When we find girls who seem close to being this way we seek to hold them as tightly as possible, sometimes too tightly but that’s a topic for another blog.

I am in no way excusing men from any freedom of blame because I’m willing to admit in some cases we are to blame. I’m however going to summarize my point in two words: ego and pride. A man is driven by his ego. He must be the best and he cannot understand the concept of not good enough or failure. If his woman wronged him even if it 125 ¼% her fault he will always wonder what he could have done better. Women are driven by pride. Their pride is so big it can make our egos as males seem miniscule. They will refuse to accept the fact that they may have short comings and as such 99.99% of all errors are the man’s fault: he either did it or made her do it.

So to my male readers just know that whatever happens you’re wrong. Once we as males understand this we can live much longer lives. We will save tones of energy fighting cases where the judge is the jury and she is also the executioner and the sentence was passed before the verdict and that was handed out before you began your defense.