Females hurt relationships

For many eons people have sought to figure out how to make relationships work. Women want to know why the man never lives up to his end of the bargain and men want to know why women are so demanding. I have discovered the secret to making love work and the simplicity of it is sure to blow your mind. Women can only prosper in relationships free from outside female pressures. For love to work women need to not listen to the scourge known as “female friends” and the relationship fungus know as “mothers.”

Female friends have been destroying relationships for all of history. Many relationships are ruined by the “you let him do what?” or the ”my man could never do something like that.” These lines put doubts into a woman’s mind and from there she looks to break the nice working routine her significant other and herself have developed and mastered. Females then forget that she was entirely happy and go with the mental virus “she must be right” or “she has a point” and starts to demand more and this may lead to male stress and relationship deterioration.

The demand for more also comes about when a female friend has a boyfriend who spends more money or more time with them than the female is apparently getting. The female may be entirely happy with what she is getting in both these departments and understands why her man may be justified in coming up short in either category however, external female pressure makes all logic in this category go out the window. The insistence of infidelity being the cause of lack of time may also arise in these circumstances. Mothers are the experts in this category and can make being 5 minutes late seem like he took a weekend get away with a lover.

Mothers have also been an issue by trying to right the wrongs of their youth by selecting the suitable males for their daughters. this is usually done based on the mother's own taste and not her daughter's preferences.If the daughter chooses to go against the mother’s wishes she is then faced with many actions to undermine the relationship. Any short comings are met with a “you were better off with” or a “you don’t know what’s good for you.” These actions similar to and sometimes in conjunction with the actions of female friends lead to further male stress as once more the female feels compelled to push for more even if she doesn’t need it.

Female friends and mothers are like a really bad workers’ union. They mask their nuisance type behavior behind the guise of caring and seeking to protect the female’s best interest. Females who are capable of ignoring external female pressures are usually the ones who are in prospering long term relationships. The ones who rely too much on the opinions of their close female parties end up alone in a bar on Friday night looking for love whilst these females are at home cuddling with subpar boyfriends but are happy and not lonely.

Never Admit To Cheating

Yesterday on a local call in program the scenario was this: a married man who was involved in an affair is considering ending the affair and telling his wife. I will say this and this will summarize everything I will further expound on in this blog. If he tells her then he either has the biggest balls on earth or he is a damn fool. Women go through periods; give birth to our children and are capable of accomplishing anything except forgiveness and forgetting.

Firstly he is probably deluding himself that his woman doesn’t know that he has been cheating. It is well known that at some point if you are engaged in a long term infidelity that your woman will find out or has known from the start. Women will stay with you during your infidelity if she can benefit from you. So if you are contributing towards her upkeep or for the well being of the kidsa woman will pretend like she doesn't know that something is up. Women are also the best detectives alive. All the unsolved mysteries in the world can be solved with the right team of females. So trust me gentlemen, unless your women is a total fool she knows that you’re doing wrong things. I’ve heard of how a woman discovered her man was cheating because his ejaculations fell below the normal level meaning he was ejaculating elsewhere. This shows that the likelihood of you cheating and her not knowing is slim to none.

The key point however is not just their detective skills. It’s their inability to ever forgive and forget. She will say she does and she will appear like she does and she will even treat you just as good as or better than before she found out about the infidelity. However, do note that you will be unable to tell her about any wrong doings she does for the rest of your physical lives together. 25 years later she would still tell you about “that nasty stinking woman you dealt with.” She will remind you about all the pain you made her feel during your infidelity.

As an extension of this point you will also be at her mercy. You will not be allowed to step out of line at any point in time. Your schedule will be strictly regimented and monitored. This is due to the fact that the trust is now gone and anything out of the norm will be a sign that you are back to your old tricks. If you are 5 minutes late getting home, if you are more tired than usual one night, if heaven forbids you have an occurrence of premature ejaculation, then you will be found guilty without a trial of being promiscuous.

Now I’m not encouraging you to cheat on your mate because like I stated before she will discover the crime. What I am stating is if you think you are getting away with it tell your conscience to suck out and keep your mouth shut. The only time you should admit infidelity is if a child or an STD is involved.