Disclaimer: the following situations are fictional but serve to highlight the issue
Alice’s family weeps uncontrollably. Under the age of 30 with so much going for her and yet now they must bury her. ALice has committed suicide. The reason she has is the man of her dreams who she met at church and was so gentlemanly and perfect turned out to like the same things she did: good quiet music, Italian food and men. The shock of finding out that he was unfaithful hurt but the catching of Alan with another man pushed her off the edge and she lost the drive to live and eventually suicide followed.
The above scenario may have been made up but the situations and underlying factors are around us every day. People ashamed of whom they are and make up alter egos to hide themselves from the public. Lisa ashamed of being poor has her friends drop her off at the top of a neighbouring gap and walks through the back to her house. David lies and steals to have the money to associate with his wealthier friends.
If you have to hide who you are to be accepted by others then you are in a sad state and these people aren’t your friends. True friends will accept you for what you are. They know your flaws and know how to maneuver around them so as not to strangle you. Hiding who you are also shows a lack of pride and love in yourself. Accept who you are and love yourself and this will ensure that the right people love you in your life.
If you have to change to be loved then you need to change who you seek love from. I'm loud at times, slightly cocky and i have a smart mouth and it can get me in trouble but after changing who I was to fit in I know to be me and my space will open. Do you know who your friends are?
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Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Women are better at this 1
Disclaimer: if you are female and easily offended or considered a feminist then just don't read this
It is well believed in Caribbean society that the males of the region are what we call wutless. What I would like to put fo4ward today is that yes there are wutless males but these males are facilitated by females and secondly women are also wutless and are even more skilled at in that men. In short the majority of wutlessness in the Caribbean is the fault of the female. I’m not calling all females wutless so take your knickers out your butt cracks. What I’m saying is that females have perfected it and in some cases encourage it.
If I go to a party and from the get go I can tell that girl “A” likes me but I have a girlfriend the scenario can play out in several ways. If I tell her I have a girlfriend she may still allow me to get close to either try to replace current girlfriend or to satisfy her basic sexual needs. She would happily go along with the outside roll for sometime too once her needs are being met. However if I fail to mention to this lady that I have a girlfriend and she later on finds out, you can be more than certain that the devil himself will be in shock and awe at the hatred and rage that she exhibits towards me after she finds out.
This you can be wutless as long as you are honest with me mentality can be seen in the cases of men that are renowned as being wutless but yet many are all willing and eager to sleep with him. This facilitates the wutlessness of the males for without willing females it is impossible to have many partners.
The other aspect of wutlessness is the reasoning behind it and this is where the female species have out shone the males again. Men are wutless just because we can be. For us the majority of the time it’s just for physical pleasures and is a case of the more the merrier. Most wutless females are wutless with a meaning. They have learnt the basic secret of human interaction and negotiations: “sex rules.” So where as wutless males just like to toss their semen around; wutless women have learnt how to use their vaginas for personal gain. If you want to see what is below the waist you must bring forth some finances. In some circumstances as with the case of NATO the mere promise of the lower treats serve these ladies well.
However unlike males most females who are this way do their activities in secret. Males due to ego flaunt their wutlessness for the praises of their peers. Females who are wutless generally do it for the advancement of their financial and socioeconomic factors. A female can attend acquire a plane ticket, accommodations and spending money without pulling her pocket. The males due to their wutlessness are usually the ones spending the money to acquire their sexual gains.
In these instances it is clear that wutless males fail in comparison to wutless females. They have perfected the art. It can also be seen that due to the socioeconomic factors that female wutlessness can be better justified whilst male wutless behavior is just puerile and adolescent. However if women keep their legs closed then most males will continue to support them but be unable to be the “studs” they seek to be with their wutlessness.
It is well believed in Caribbean society that the males of the region are what we call wutless. What I would like to put fo4ward today is that yes there are wutless males but these males are facilitated by females and secondly women are also wutless and are even more skilled at in that men. In short the majority of wutlessness in the Caribbean is the fault of the female. I’m not calling all females wutless so take your knickers out your butt cracks. What I’m saying is that females have perfected it and in some cases encourage it.
If I go to a party and from the get go I can tell that girl “A” likes me but I have a girlfriend the scenario can play out in several ways. If I tell her I have a girlfriend she may still allow me to get close to either try to replace current girlfriend or to satisfy her basic sexual needs. She would happily go along with the outside roll for sometime too once her needs are being met. However if I fail to mention to this lady that I have a girlfriend and she later on finds out, you can be more than certain that the devil himself will be in shock and awe at the hatred and rage that she exhibits towards me after she finds out.
This you can be wutless as long as you are honest with me mentality can be seen in the cases of men that are renowned as being wutless but yet many are all willing and eager to sleep with him. This facilitates the wutlessness of the males for without willing females it is impossible to have many partners.
The other aspect of wutlessness is the reasoning behind it and this is where the female species have out shone the males again. Men are wutless just because we can be. For us the majority of the time it’s just for physical pleasures and is a case of the more the merrier. Most wutless females are wutless with a meaning. They have learnt the basic secret of human interaction and negotiations: “sex rules.” So where as wutless males just like to toss their semen around; wutless women have learnt how to use their vaginas for personal gain. If you want to see what is below the waist you must bring forth some finances. In some circumstances as with the case of NATO the mere promise of the lower treats serve these ladies well.
However unlike males most females who are this way do their activities in secret. Males due to ego flaunt their wutlessness for the praises of their peers. Females who are wutless generally do it for the advancement of their financial and socioeconomic factors. A female can attend acquire a plane ticket, accommodations and spending money without pulling her pocket. The males due to their wutlessness are usually the ones spending the money to acquire their sexual gains.
In these instances it is clear that wutless males fail in comparison to wutless females. They have perfected the art. It can also be seen that due to the socioeconomic factors that female wutlessness can be better justified whilst male wutless behavior is just puerile and adolescent. However if women keep their legs closed then most males will continue to support them but be unable to be the “studs” they seek to be with their wutlessness.
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Pop-Ya Bubble burse
So I’m on a bubble about talking about today’s topic . It’s been all over the news and seems ironic that after Rihanna killed it on Friday that her song was prophetically sung less than 24 hours after. It’s just disturbing that with all the crime recently that a pageant’s winner’s burst bubble takes over so much of the news coverage. What’s also disturbing is how catty Christians and lovable persons alike seem to be over the apparent signs of the collapse. These aspects of the case I will keep my mouth sealed like it was covered with duct tape on but the other aspects are what disturb me.
Nobody is asking why Kartel and Movado were barred for controversial lyrics and a show of this nature was given a stamp of approval despite “controversial lifestyles.” In a society that claims to be founded on heavy religious beliefs and with a church on every corner why is it that we have become so accepting of certain elements in our society. Now I’m not judging anyone on their lifestyle because The Good Father above knows I’ve got a few less than morally acceptable things to answer to but I just confused as to what we teaching the next generation.
Nobody care about the fact that pageants even in the alternative lifestyle arena seem to make the “girls” go to all ends to fit into the socially acceptable norms of what a lady supposed to look like. The emotional affects of pageants are not as important however as keeping a tape over the dirty belly of the pageant and modeling world. Maybe that’s why we wanted to ban Black Swan.
The gays care that the Christians are attacking them. The Christians care that God is showing us a sign. The newspapers care that such an article will sell. The girls care that their men secretly might be friends with bubbles. The men care that bubbles and company are getting better at looking like girls. No one cares that a human died. I myself don’t really care except that I’m tired hearing a dead person be the butt of these jokes.
Pointless murders, robbery, police being shot at and the utilities collecting large amount of reconnection fees because all the money was spent on Crop Over and Rihanna. $500 for a ticket, $300 for a dress, $200 for a hairstyle and $100 for nails just means that a lot of children going school next year with last year’s uniform but no one really care. The major talking point is the death of Bubbles.
Nobody is asking why Kartel and Movado were barred for controversial lyrics and a show of this nature was given a stamp of approval despite “controversial lifestyles.” In a society that claims to be founded on heavy religious beliefs and with a church on every corner why is it that we have become so accepting of certain elements in our society. Now I’m not judging anyone on their lifestyle because The Good Father above knows I’ve got a few less than morally acceptable things to answer to but I just confused as to what we teaching the next generation.
Nobody care about the fact that pageants even in the alternative lifestyle arena seem to make the “girls” go to all ends to fit into the socially acceptable norms of what a lady supposed to look like. The emotional affects of pageants are not as important however as keeping a tape over the dirty belly of the pageant and modeling world. Maybe that’s why we wanted to ban Black Swan.
The gays care that the Christians are attacking them. The Christians care that God is showing us a sign. The newspapers care that such an article will sell. The girls care that their men secretly might be friends with bubbles. The men care that bubbles and company are getting better at looking like girls. No one cares that a human died. I myself don’t really care except that I’m tired hearing a dead person be the butt of these jokes.
Pointless murders, robbery, police being shot at and the utilities collecting large amount of reconnection fees because all the money was spent on Crop Over and Rihanna. $500 for a ticket, $300 for a dress, $200 for a hairstyle and $100 for nails just means that a lot of children going school next year with last year’s uniform but no one really care. The major talking point is the death of Bubbles.
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